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How Hormones impact your Child's Sleep

April 14, 20253 min read

Are you puzzled by your child's erratic sleep patterns? Do you wonder why they're wired at bedtime but exhausted during the day? The answer might lie in the fascinating world of hormones.

Hormones play a crucial role in regulating sleep, both in children and adults. Understanding how these chemical messengers work can be a game-changer in helping your little one (and you!) achieve those precious hours of restful sleep.  

The Key Players: Melatonin and Cortisol

Let's meet the two main hormones that significantly influence sleep:

  • Melatonin: The Sleepy Cue
    Melatonin is often called the "sleep hormone." It's produced by the pineal gland in the brain and its levels rise in response to darkness. Melatonin signals to the body that it's time to wind down and prepare for sleep. Think of it as the conductor of the sleep orchestra, telling everyone to quiet down and get ready for the performance. 

  • Cortisol: The Wake-Up Call
    Cortisol, on the other hand, is often referred to as the "stress hormone," but it's also essential for alertness. Cortisol levels are typically highest in the morning, helping us wake up and feel energized. It's like the body's internal alarm clock, getting us ready to face the day.  

The Hormonal Dance: A Delicate Balance

For optimal sleep, we need a delicate balance between melatonin and cortisol. Here's a simplified view:  

  • Evening: As it gets dark, melatonin levels should rise, while cortisol levels naturally decrease.

  • Night: Melatonin remains elevated to promote sleep.

  • Morning: Cortisol levels rise, while melatonin decreases, signaling wakefulness.  

How Hormones Affect Children's Sleep

Here's where things get interesting, especially for parents:

Melatonin in Babies:
Newborns don't produce melatonin in the same way as older children and adults. They rely on melatonin received from their mother. This is why consistent routines and a dark sleep environment are so important to help them develop their own melatonin production.

Cortisol and Overtiredness:
When children stay awake for too long, they become overtired. This triggers the release of cortisol, which is a stimulant. So, instead of feeling sleepy, they become hyperactive and resistant to sleep. It's like their bodies are fighting against sleep!  

The Impact of Light:

Light, especially blue light from screens, suppresses melatonin production and increases cortisol levels. This is why screen time before bed is so disruptive.  

Stress and Anxiety:

Stress and anxiety, whether in the child or the parent, can increase cortisol levels, making it harder to fall asleep and stay asleep.  

Practical Takeaways for Parents

  • Create a Dark Sleep Environment: Use blackout curtains to maximize melatonin production.  

  • Establish a Consistent Bedtime Routine: This helps regulate your child's natural sleep-wake cycle.

  • Limit Screen Time Before Bed: Avoid screens for at least an hour before bedtime to minimize blue light exposure.  

  • Manage Overtiredness: Follow age-appropriate wake windows to prevent the release of stress hormones.  

  • Prioritize Your Own Well-being: Your stress levels affect your child's sleep. Practice self-care to manage your own cortisol levels.  

Understanding the role of hormones in sleep can empower you to create a more supportive sleep environment for your child. By focusing on promoting melatonin production and minimising cortisol, you can help your little one (and yourself!) enjoy more restful nights.

If you're struggling to navigate your child's sleep challenges, remember that seeking expert guidance can make a significant difference. I can help you create a personalised plan that addresses your child's unique needs and hormonal rhythms.

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Infant and Child Sleep Expert, helping parents resolve their children's sleep challenges, using gentle techniques that support your child's individual learning needs.

Emma Lambert // Sleep Nanny Certificated Partner

Infant and Child Sleep Expert, helping parents resolve their children's sleep challenges, using gentle techniques that support your child's individual learning needs.

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